Is Parker County
History History?
By Jeff Clark
There was a
time when Parker County history was chased after like a
long lost love. Log cabins could hide along forgotten creeks, knowing someone
like Mary Kemp would be along shortly, would return their story back into the pages
of this county’s recorded history. Doing local history has become like
television – we can give it our time, but first it must entertain us.
The story of Parker County
was largely written by “hunter/gatherer” historians like Evlyn Broumley, Fred
Cotton, Mary Kemp, Dodie Sullivan ,
Leon Tanner and
others. These folks were not formally trained. Most were born here, all were
consumed with the desire that their hometown’s legacy be remembered, preserved
and celebrated.
These folks slaved away in courthouse
basements or chopping brush away from lost cemetery headstones by themselves or
in small unorganized groups for decades. No grants, no employees, no hoopla.
Today a robust menu of local groups
is still doing important work, each holding a different part of the elephant:
the Parker County Historical Commission, the Weatherford Historic Preservation
Commission, the East Parker County Genealogy and Historical Society, the Parker
County Texas History and Heritage Inc., Parker County Heritage Society, the
Parker County Archeological Society and more. There are also individuals like Debbie
Liles (the Parker County Oral History Project) making significant contributions.
Still, I sense something’s changing.
The Parker County Genealogical
Society disbanded after 41 years. Its 37 charter members have “gotten old or
passed away,” charter member Evlyn Broumley told me. The internet has also made
the in depth research these trailblazers pursued a rarity, even among scholars.
There’s still a lot of history out
there to discover and document, almost all I spoke with agreed. Lowell “Dodie” Sullivan,
president of the Parker County Abandoned Cemetery Association tells me three
“lost” cemeteries were restored just since August.
Watching bulldozers and dump trucks
pave What’s Next across Weatherford’s landscape, I begin to wonder if anyone cares.
Broumley used
to get five to 10 research queries a week. “You don’t get them anymore.” She
fills her weekly column with interesting snippets from old Weatherford newspapers.
This should’ve been a clue.
People have
become readers, not writers.
The internet is one factor. “You still
have to get offline sources,” she told me. “You can’t believe everything online,
in a book or what Aunt Mary said until you can prove it.”
People settle for “good enough” research
in this bulleted age of blogs and sound bites. The “why things happen”
questions sometimes fall by the wayside.
Broumley said she still gets
questions from people wanting to know about the area, “but you can’t really
separate people out of history – they make it.” She’s come home from “hands on”
research and preservation scratched by briars, bitten by a dog and having walked
up on a rattlesnake in the woods. “Did you know you can jump flatfooted
straight up from the ground?”
I asked Broumley who her
replacement would be. She mentioned a granddaughter in college who will be 65
four decades from now. I hear bulldozers rumbling in the background of my
concern.
Fearfully, I begin searching for
the next Evlyn Broumley, the next Mary Kemp.
I started looking
inside the 18-member Parker County Abandoned Cemetery Association (ACA). They
maintain 64 cemeteries within 30 square miles.
Word of mouth delivers most
volunteers. “You get to a certain point in your life,” President Dodie Sullivan
says, “when volunteering fits your life. You’ve retired, the kids are grown. A
lot of people will volunteer if you ask them at the right time.” The ACA has
also received help from the county commissioners, volunteers and landowners in
the past.
Lost graveyards are often discovered
by new landowners clearing brush. A man called them about the abandoned Clower Cemetery
near Whitt. The ACA got to work. Census records were searched to match each
headstone’s identity. Brush and high grass was trimmed back. Dodie feels like
he knows the people in each cemetery after he does all that research. It
connects him to the cemetery’s future care.
Few ACA members are younger than
65. The Parker County Committee on Aging reports there are over 13,000 senior
citizens in this area.
Mary Kemp worries about the future
of “doing history” in Parker
County . “Most people
don’t remember the Great Depression, don’t remember WWII,” she said. I asked
her where her passion for history came from.
Kemp’s
mother took her to visit their family’s Parker County
cemeteries when she was a little girl. “She told me their stories, who those
people were.” Families would meet at Spring
Creek Cemetery
to take care of their own plots. “If another family’s plot was uncared for,
everyone just pitched in.”
Children
worked beside parents, heard their stories, built community with the folks that
came before.
Mary has written five books, edited
or co-edited the two Parker County History books, had a hand in 17 state historical
markers and helped restore numerous historic buildings and cemeteries. “I
couldn’t have done what I did without family, friends and volunteers helping
all along the way.”
Those who know Mary, however, know
she’s a self-appointed committee of one – her own parade or the leader of small
parades when she finds something that needs saved. Still, Mary’s fabled
sunbonnet, boots, gloves, and grubbing hoe haven’t left her closet in a while.
Mary’s “Shaw-Kemp Open House” draws
4,000 visitors each spring to see bluebonnets blooming among an 1856 log cabin,
a 1918 homestead and many other historic structures she’s preserved south of
town.
Mary went hard core into her
historical pursuits when she was in her mid-50s. “Who’s the next Mary Kemp?” I
ask.
Mary smiles. “I love all my
grandkids, all my great grandkids equally.” They call her “Great Ma.” Mary’s 11-year-old
great granddaughter Taylor Todd Kemp has come to Mary when working on school
projects, has her same love of dolls (Mary’s collection numbered in the
thousands), and is asking the right questions a young Mary Kemp might ask.
If Taylor cranks up her research in her
mid-fifties like Great Ma did, the Mary Kemp machine will lay silent for 40
years.
That’s a long time for this county to
wait.
The Doss Heritage and Culture Center opened four and a half years ago,
the 25 year culmination of work by a small group of local leaders called Civic
Development. Many don’t realize the beautiful stone building at East Park
and Texas Drive
houses a museum. The Doss often adds the new tagline “A Texas History Museum”
to their promotions.
Exhibit Coordinator C.B. Williams
shares that a recent seminar for museums she attended said that the typical
format museums use to showcase their history archives is changing. Museums must
compete with places like Six Flags for the attention of potential visitors.
Looking to the east, I notice that the
Fort Worth Museum of Science and History changed their approach. Quiet “nailed
to the wall” static displays have been replaced by lively “hands on” exhibits,
videos, and interactive games.
The Doss has learned that their
opportunities for educating youth will grow if current traditional exhibits are
enhanced by interactive displays, video games, and turning the Mary Martin
Collection into a more dynamic “Broadway Experience”, as one example.
The Doss already boasts interaction
with area youth through school programs, Doss Wranglers weekend classes and
“Gone to Texas ”
and “American Indian” summer camps for kids.
“We have so much to compete with
for kids’ entertainment,” Williams says. “We’re going to be the Kimbell
someday, only about history.” The Doss would be a destination.
The Doss sits on seven acres leased
from Weatherford College for 99 years. It hopes to fill
these seven acres with six log cabins now in private hands. The Doss just
started tapping into Weatherford
College as a resource,
using students to design video games for future exhibits or using archeology
students to research Parker
County ’s prehistoric history.
The Weatherford Public Library
boasts a great history/genealogy collection – old maps, newspapers, files on
families and old groups. And let’s face it, newspapers, magazines, websites,
blogs – surely this flood of information will positively impact future
researchers.
Mary Kemp
is still always on call, even with her health challenges. Evlyn Broumley still
writes, still answers questions that trickle in.
Broumley
received a request for information last week. “There’s no way I can lift those
big deed books anymore.” Mary tells me she turned over many of her cemetery
records to the ACA last year.
“You have
to encourage people to become active,” Broumley told me, “as we become
inactive.”
The Good
Old Days often weren’t. A story like this written 20 or 80 years ago would’ve
revealed a haphazard approach to the gathering of county history. People like
Mary, Evlyn and their deceased forebears were out on a mission and worried
little about public image, Roberts Rules of Order or strategic plans.
Harder to document would’ve been
the little girls and boys hearing their family’s stories, visiting ancestral
hallowed places, taking within their own heart stories of where they came from,
of who their bold heritage would allow them to be in their own lives.
Look around Weatherford. The days
of story-telling old men drinking coffee together are coming to an end.
Children are rarely pulled away from their computer keyboards and handed a grub
hoe to tend grandma’s grave. What’s out in the woods will have to wait, will have
to hope the bulldozers can be distracted until the next Mary Kemp or Evlyn
Broumley make their entrance onto Parker County’s historic stage.
Plowshares Into Keyboards,
Quick Hits of History for Next Generation
People often confide “I wished I’d
paid more attention to grandma’s stories about the old times when I was growing
up.” Today’s college student or history researcher will likely hit Google or
rootsweb.com websites, before thinking to ask grandma (who lives in another
state) or God-forbid opening a library book.
I became curious about the future
of “doing history” in Parker
County . Through the
years, our first hand oral history changed to second hand written history and
now heads toward filtered, anonymous online history. The computer becomes the storyteller,
instead of whoever generated the original “content”.
We can’t ask a black man in
Weatherford what it felt like to be discriminated against, unless we go knock
on his door.
Indiana Jones didn’t use the
internet.
Early on, I suspected internet access
to websites like Ancestry.com was the culprit. That’s not the entire answer.
History is like football. It can be learned, played, or watched. Imagine
learning to play football by reading a website. The gathering of history is no
different.
Professor Brad Tibbitts teaches
history at Weatherford
College . “Students
entering college are being taught history in a very interactive way.” They are
exposed to computers and DVDs to receive information. This trend will increase
as time goes by, he believes.
College courses still offer
lectures, but students want content to be as interactive as possible. Many
textbooks have DVDs in the back. Companies selling learning materials realize
this and push the envelope, developing progressively more interactive means of
learning, moving away from lectures and original research. Searching for a
relevant book becomes passé.
Students learn with computers, video
games and online. They become “recipients” of information, not discoverers.
Most of what Tibbitts’ five and
ten-year-old grandsons requested for Christmas consisted of electronics. This
year’s high school graduating class will be the first Google Generation, being
born the same year the search engine came into being. These students believe
the answer will hit their screen, if they type in the correct question.
When Tibbitts was a kid he occupied
himself outside, his imagination or friends providing the chief search engines
of his entertainment. Now many kids remain inside watching hours of TV or
playing electronic games. Goofing around with your friends has become a schedule
of activities organized by adults.
No one knows the long term
implications. “Things don’t get melted in the melting pot like they once did,”
Tibbitts said. “People don’t get to talk to different types of people like they
once did.” Children “talk” through the filters of text message, email or
Facebook.
Even the use of the telephone is becoming
limited. Each semester Tibbitts explains to new students that telephoning or
dropping by his office will facilitate better interaction. Students are
resistant to using the phone, though it’s hard to text message the same subtlety
of 1950s race relations that one can see in person on the twisted face of an
80-year-old man who suffered it first hand.
We talk more AT each other using
electronics, not WITH each other like we did in the past. Public discussion is often lost in a tide of cynicism and
reproach.
“It’s important to set examples
that are worthy,” Tibbitts believes. “Look more at how we’re alike, not at how
we’re different. If we’re losing the ability to talk as people it’s dangerous
for this country,” he adds.
Tibbitts sees similarities between the
current tenor of public discourse and that shortly before the Civil War. It was
easy to see Northerners as Them, not taking the time to know or understand
their point of view.
Tibbitts has taught young people
for 44 years.
“I think it’s important that we be
mindful of who’s coming along behind us,” he said. The path we lay out will be
walked by our children and grandchildren.
We are being taught by machines, expelling
information input by people we may never know. Many accept the truth of what
pops up on their computer screens. The story and meaning of the nation and of Parker County
history become shallow and prone to misinterpretation when we become “watchers”
of the world instead of people actively digging into Parker County ’s
soil for its truth.
Donate Grandma’s Stuff
Where It Will Live Forever
“A lot of things get into the hands
of people who don’t care,” historian Evlyn Broumley says. Parker County
citizens have amassed rich personal collections of papers or artifacts over long
life times. “Things get lost,” she added. “Private collections become at risk
or disappear once their collector dies.”
Though these collections are viewed
as strictly private property by out-of-the-area heirs, the harmful impact to
the county’s history when these treasures are lost or destroyed is hard to
overestimate. There are core historians in this county who are unsure where
they’ll leave their valuable collections.
As Weatherford continues to grow,
we don’t know all our neighbors. We don’t know which door to knock on searching
for this county’s Holy Grail.
The Doss Heritage and Culture
Center’s C. B. Williams reports that a lady recently walked through their front
doors with one of Oliver Loving’s quilts. None of her kids wanted it. What if
that kind donor had passed away before her important gift?
Broumley encourages heirs to donate
at least a copy of important papers somewhere safe. She suggests a local
collection, but advises that one ask important questions: do you want these
things, will you preserve them, and what happens if you close or change your
mission?
Broumley places duplicates of her
work in multiple places. Just because an event is recorded in a book, doesn’t
mean it happened exactly that way. “You’re taking one person’s report, what he
saw and remembered,” she says.
When grandma dies, you can toss her
collection in the trash, donate it to a college or university, attempt to maintain
the collection yourself or find a local archival facility like the Doss or the
Weatherford Library.
The Weatherford Library will copy
family bibles and place them in the files (there’s nine filing cabs in the
Weatherford Library now). The Doss Heritage and Culture Center
will accept items if they comply with their mission statement (www.dosscenter.org).
In a nutshell, if grandma’s history happened in Parker County ,
it has a pretty good shot at the Doss. If not, it could still be used in education.
Researching a recent story, I was
told that the late educator Raymond Curtis maintained a lush collection
regarding Weatherford schools. Though I was given many clues, I could never locate
this treasure trove. I completed my story sensing one of Curtis’ boxes might’ve
held an underreported chapter in this city’s history.
Many artifacts are offered to the
Doss. Their Collection Committee reviews these donations, which can be made as true
donations, conditional donations or loans for an agreed-upon period of time.
“We learned about a 91-year-old
lady from her husband,” Williams told me. “His wife lives in a nursing home.
When she was born she slept in this wonderful pioneer cradle, which she donated.”
He asked if the cradle was being exhibited. Williams told him that she wished
his wife could come see the museum to see where she donated her wonderful
treasure. Parker County Transportation brought her to the
Doss. Her wheelchair was rolled in and she saw her donations distributed among the
exhibits. She cried with happiness and shared many old stories.
Doss Archive/Collections
Coordinator Delissa Slimp wants to make sure, however, that people know that
donating is no guarantee that materials will always be on exhibit, due to space
limitations.
There are other great archival
facilities like Texas Tech’s Southwest Collection in Lubbock, UTA’s Special
Collections and several other Texas
colleges and universities. These can offer unparalleled safety and integrity to
historical collections, but they lie outside the county.
The Doss has catalogued storage facilities
on its ground floor, as well as climate-controlled storage offsite. Like most
history museums, they utilize the Past Perfect software to catalog their
collection for researchers’ use. The Doss has already assisted college student
research, using their four and a half-year-old collection. The Doss is a
501(c)3 entity and is incorporated. The assets (collection) of the organization
would be turned over to another non-profit organization or as directed by the
board to an organization should the structure of the Doss ever change.
Ideally, historians should visit
these facilities themselves. Ask the important questions. Then let their years
of hard work go forward to help future researchers piece together Parker County ’s
important legacy.
Special
thanks to Joann Barnhart, Evlyn Broumley, Harold Lawrence, Wayne Lee, Mary
Kemp, Betsy Pedigo, Linda Pelon, Delissa Slimp, Lowell “Dodie” Sullivan , Leon
Tanner, Brad Tibbits, C. B. Williams, Rae Wooten and the Weatherford Public
Library.
I would love to know more about Parker County history. My 3rd great grandfather died there in 1896. Please contact me for further info. Kam5441@aol.com thank you
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